“To get kids on-board for a move, involve them in the process.”

It isn't easy pulling up roots and relocating. There's so much to lose and only a vague picture of what's on the horizon--especially from a child's viewpoint. Getting your children involved with the move will ease their anxiety and reluctance.

Share as much information as you can gather about the new location. Challenge older kids to find out about exciting or interesting aspects of your new home --and reward them for their efforts. If possible, take the kids on your home shopping trips, or at least bring them photos of homes you're considering. Try to visit the new schools before you move, making sure teachers and administrators will have time to talk with you and your children.